At a recent Oakwood University service, Pastor Robert Edwards delivered a passionate message on abstinence, urging students to resist temptation and “say no to Diddy.” The phrase, recently trending in pop culture, took on a new meaning in the pastor’s sermon, where he emphasized the importance of waiting until marriage for intimacy.
Oakwood University, a historically Black Seventh-day Adventist college in Huntsville, Alabama, hosted the service, which quickly gained attention on social media. The viral moment occurred toward the end of the service, where Pastor Edwards shared his personal commitment to abstinence, telling students they may face tough choices while in school.
“Even while you’re here, you may have to say ‘No Diddy’ to an Oakwood student,” Pastor Edwards told the congregation. “You have to make an individual decision about your life and what you are going to do.”
Preaching Abstinence with ‘No Diddy’
The phrase “No Diddy” has recently replaced older terms like “No Homo” or “Pause” in the hip-hop world, following serious allegations against music mogul Sean “Diddy” Combs. While Edwards didn’t elaborate on these allegations, he used the phrase to symbolize the strength needed to resist temptation.
The pastor went on to share his personal journey, explaining how he remained committed to abstinence, even when facing pressure from romantic partners. “At age 19, I told the Lord I wouldn’t have sex until I was married. That decision was tested,” he shared.
Recalling his relationship with his wife, Edwards revealed they didn’t kiss until they were married. “I didn’t even kiss my wife until I made it to the altar, and without pre-kissing, I’ve been married 40 years,” he said, earning applause from the congregation.
Pastor Edwards closed his message with a powerful chant of “No Diddy, No Diddy,” urging students to stay steadfast in their decisions. His message of abstinence resonated with the students, proving that even in the face of temptation, it is possible to stick to one’s values.