Jennifer Lopez said she’s learned a lot after divorinc Ben Affleck.
Appearing on the SmartLess with Jason Bateman, Sean Hayes, and Will Arnett, Lopez shared her expeinces.
“I really got to know myself. And the person I am today is so different than the person I was even two years ago,” she said.
“Do you recognize that that can be a real accomplishment for somebody in your position?” Bateman asked Lopez.
“There’s been different times where I felt like — whether people outside knew it or not — my life blew up in my own face,” Lopez repsonded.
“It was because of the choices I made. But also because of the fact that I had things that needed to change about myself that I didn’t understand or recognize that was attracting certain things. And attracting a certain type of experience into my life,” she added.
After ending it with Aflleck, explained her how it was to be herself.
“After my last divorce, I just sat there, and I was like, I canceled my tour, I sat there and I was just like, ‘You need to f‑‑‑ing figure yourself out. What is going on with you? Forget about everybody else,” Lopez said. “There’s nobody to blame here except yourself in a certain way.’”
“Not that people don’t behave in a way that’s not great, but what are you doing? What do you have going on”, she concluded. “That was a turning point for me. And that was a couple of years ago now.”
“There’s been different times where I felt like — whether people outside knew it or not — my life blew up in my own face,” Lopez said.
“It was because of the choices I made but also because of the fact that I had things that needed to change about myself that I didn’t understand or recognize that was attracting certain things and attracting a certain type of experience into my life,” she added.