Ray J Upset After Restraining Order Keeps Him From His Kids

Ray J performs onstage during ONE Musicfest 2025 at Piedmont Park on October 25, 2025 in Atlanta, Georgia.

Ray J is opening up about the painful reality of missing his son’s birthday and not spending the holiday with his children.

ATLANTA, GEORGIA – OCTOBER 25: Ray J performs onstage during ONE Musicfest 2025 at Piedmont Park on October 25, 2025 in Atlanta, Georgia. (Photo by Julia Beverly/Getty Images) (Photo by Julia Beverly/Getty Images)

The “One Wish” singer and reality TV star is currently unable to have contact with two kids, Melody, 7 and Epik, 5, due to an extended no-contact restraining order involving his estranged wife, Princess Love. The order stemmed from Ray J’s arrest last month after an incident in which he allegedly pointed a gun at Princess during a Thanksgiving livestream.

Ray J was released on $50,000 bail and has denied aiming a weapon at her.

With Christmas and the New Year approaching, Ray J says the situation feels especially unfair. The Shade Room shared a video where “Wait A Minute” reacted emotionally when asked about missing time with his kids.

“Man, I don’t even want to talk about it,” he said. “I’m missing my kids. I’m missing Christmas, my son’s birthday.”

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA – JUNE 26: (L-R) Princess Love and Ray J attend the 2022 BET Awards at Microsoft Theater on June 26, 2022 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Momodu Mansaray/WireImage) (Photo by Momodu Mansaray/WireImage)

In addition to missing Christmas, he will also be unable to see Epik for his upcoming sixth birthday. The tension between the former couple spilled online during a livestream. Princess confronted her estranged husband in an emotional exchange. In a reaction video, she urged him to seek professional help.

“Check yourself into rehab, because you’re more than drunk,” Princess said at the time. “Everything I do, I do for my kids.”

Ray J and Princess Love announced their fourth attempt at divorce last year.