Simone Smith, wife of hip-hop icon LL Cool J, recently shared insights into their enduring 29-year marriage. In a candid conversation on the Banking on Cultura podcast, she discussed personal growth, faith, and the challenges of being married to a global sex symbol.
Embracing Personal Growth and Faith
Reflecting on their early years, Simone admitted to grappling with jealousy. “I used to get upset when women looked at him a certain way, but that was years ago,” she revealed. Her perspective shifted after reading The Power of a Praying Wife, a book gifted by LL Cool J’s cousin. “The closer you get to God, the more you understand your purpose,” she explained. This spiritual journey led her to focus on self-improvement rather than external factors.
Setting Boundaries and Maintaining Confidence
While Simone accepts that admirers find her husband attractive, she draws the line at disrespect. “The disrespect—I can’t deal with. At 54, I’m ready to take off the hoops,” she joked, referencing the symbolic act of removing earrings before a confrontation. Despite public attention, she remains confident in their relationship. “It’s about knowing who you are, and I know who Simone is,” she stated firmly.
Simone emphasized the importance of creating a nurturing home environment. “I’m the homemaker. I’m home raising the kids while he was out doing his thing, working, and supporting each other’s dreams,” she shared. This mutual support has been a cornerstone of their nearly three-decade-long marriage.
LL Cool J, born James Todd Smith, and Simone began their relationship in 1987 and married in 1995. Together, they have four children. Over the years, both have spoken about the effort required to maintain a strong partnership. In a past interview, LL Cool J highlighted the importance of consistent romance and support. “Too many men think romance starts at the last second. It takes all day. It’s about support,” he explained.
Fans have praised Simone’s candidness and wisdom. One social media user commented, “She grew. Matured. She learned to pick her battles without accepting disrespect.” Another referred to her as a “true queen,” acknowledging the strength required to be married to a high-profile artist.