In a recent interview, Tina Knowles, mother of music icons Beyoncé and Solange, shared her decision to place her daughters in therapy during their childhood. This proactive step aimed to address sibling rivalry and strengthen their bond amidst the challenges of rising fame.
“I took them to counseling very early so that the counselor could help Beyoncé be more sensitive to Solange,” Knowles explained. “She couldn’t stand her for a minute. You know, when they were little, [Solange] was all in her stuff, trying to hang around her and her friends, and Beyoncé was really irritated.”
Beyoncé and Solange from Tina Knowles View
As Beyoncé’s career began to ascend, Knowles noticed a growing tension between her daughters. Solange often felt overshadowed, leading to feelings of resentment. To address this, Knowles took the unconventional step of enrolling them in therapy.
“My family was like, ‘You’re going to make them crazy because they’re too young for you to take them,’” she recalled. “But I wanted Beyoncé to be sensitive to the fact that Solange had to deal with being a little bit in her shadow.”
Beyond therapy, Knowles implemented strategies to ensure each daughter felt valued. She dedicated specific days to spend time with each child individually. “On Wednesdays, I took off from work, and that was Solange’s day,” she shared. “She was a lot younger than Beyoncé, and it was tough because Beyoncé was this little superstar in our city.”
These efforts appear to have paid off. Today, Beyoncé and Solange share a close relationship, often supporting each other’s artistic endeavors. Their bond serves as a testament to the importance of addressing familial dynamics early on.
Knowles’ approach underscores the significance of proactive parenting, especially when navigating the complexities of fame and sibling relationships. Her story offers valuable insights for families facing similar challenges.