In a candid discussion on Michelle Obama’s podcast IMO, actress Tracee Ellis Ross shared her reasons for dating younger men. The Black-ish star emphasized that her preference is rooted in seeking emotional openness and rejecting traditional relationship dynamics.
Tracee Ellis Ross Seeking Emotional Freedom
Ross explained that many men her age are entrenched in outdated notions of masculinity. “A lot of men my age are steeped in a toxic masculinity and have been raised in a culture where there is a particular way that a relationship looks,” she said. She recounted past experiences where she felt controlled or objectified, stating, “I did enough of it where I was controlled and felt like I was a possession or a prize.”
In contrast, Ross finds that younger men often exhibit greater flexibility and acceptance. “There is an openness that occurs with a younger man, whether it’s gender fluid … ,” she noted. She added, “I have long been past … .”
Prioritizing Self-Knowledge and Autonomy
Ross, who is in her 50s, emphasized the importance of self-awareness in her dating choices. “I am a full, very whole … —who knows myself, who is in … ,” she shared. She seeks partners who complement her life rather than conform to societal expectations.
While acknowledging moments of loneliness, Ross remains firm in her decision not to settle. “As much as grief does surface … —at all,” she stated. “I’m not interested in that.”
Ross’s openness about her dating preferences highlights a broader conversation about autonomy and the evolving dynamics of modern relationships. Her insights resonate with many who prioritize emotional safety and personal growth over traditional norms.