Kerry Washington is offering a rare glimpse into her marriage, sharing that she and her husband sought counseling long before facing any major issues.
The actress, known for her role in “Scandal,” said she and Nnamdi Asomugha began couples therapy early in their relationship as a proactive step. The pair married in 2013 and have largely kept their personal life out of the public eye.
Speaking during a recent appearance on the Call Her Daddy podcast, Washington explained the reasoning behind their decision.
“Like, we started couples therapy before anything was wrong,” she said. “Kind of preventatively.”
Building a Foundation Early
Washington said the goal was to create healthy communication habits before challenges emerged. She described the process as a way to build a strong emotional foundation.
“We were like, we should just, like, start having these conversations,” she said, noting it helped establish “a culture of knowing how to talk about stuff.”
The Emmy-winning actress emphasized that therapy has become a meaningful part of their routine. She described their sessions as something she genuinely looks forward to each week.
“This is the best part of my week,” Washington said.
Each session begins with a simple but intentional exercise. The couple shares something they appreciate about each other, often revealing unexpected insights.
“So often … it’s not something I would have guessed,” she said, describing how small gestures can carry deeper meaning.
A Private Marriage, Public Insight
Washington and Asomugha have been married for more than a decade and share children together. Despite their long relationship, they rarely discuss their marriage publicly.
Her recent comments stand out as an uncommon moment of openness. They also reflect a broader cultural shift toward embracing therapy as a tool for growth, not just conflict resolution.
Washington credited her husband with helping her grow personally and emotionally over the years. She described their partnership as a continuous learning experience.
“Oh, God, he teaches me stuff all the time,” she said.
In an industry often defined by high-profile breakups, Washington’s approach highlights a different path. Rather than waiting for problems, she said the couple chose to invest in their relationship early.